You’re deep into wedding planning—venues booked, dress picked, guest list trimmed (well, almost). With so many things on your to-do list, it’s tempting to skip the engagement session and save it for “just the wedding day.” But here’s the truth: an engagement session isn’t just another checkbox. It’s a golden opportunity you don’t want to miss.


As a wedding photographer, I’ve worked with couples across Ottawa, Russell, and beyond, and I can confidently say: the engagement session is more than just pretty pictures. Here’s why it matters.

1. Get Comfortable in Front of the Camera

Unless you're a professional model (and hey, even if you are), chances are you and your partner don’t spend a lot of time being professionally photographed. Engagement sessions are a relaxed, no-pressure way to shake off the nerves and get used to the camera—before your big day.

We get to learn how you move, what makes you laugh, and what poses feel natural to you. You’ll get a feel for my shooting style, and I’ll get to know what brings out your best. Come wedding day, you’ll feel way more relaxed and confident.

2. Build Trust with Your Photographer

Think of your engagement session as a trial run—a chance for us to connect and build a relationship. When there’s trust, there’s magic. By the time your wedding rolls around, we’ll already have a rhythm, and you’ll feel like you’re being photographed by a friend, not a stranger.


Plus, it’s a great chance to chat about your wedding timeline, your vision, and even little things like your “good side” or poses you love (or hate!).

3. Personalized Photos in a Location You Love

Engagement sessions are all about you—your story, your vibe, your connection. Want to shoot where you first met? Done. Have a favourite hiking trail or coffee shop that feels like your second home? Let’s go there. Unlike your wedding day, which follows a schedule, engagement sessions are laid-back and tailored to your personality.

And let’s be honest, who doesn’t love cozy, candid shots of just the two of you in your element?

4. Use the Photos for Everything

These aren’t just for Instagram (although they’ll definitely look great in your feed). Your engagement photos can be used for:

  • Save-the-date cards
  • Wedding websites
  • Guest books
  • Reception décor
  • Gifts for family
  • Or just to frame and hang on your wall

Having professional photos that capture your relationship before the wedding is a keepsake that lasts long after the cake is gone.

5. Celebrate This Season of Life

Wedding planning can get busy—fast. The engagement session is a chance to pause, breathe, and celebrate this special season. It’s not just about preparing for the wedding; it’s about enjoying where you are right now—engaged, in love, and building a life together.

Final Thoughts

You only get engaged once (hopefully!), and this time is worth documenting. Skipping the engagement session might save time, but you’d be missing out on a meaningful experience—and a whole gallery of memories to look back on.

So if you’re on the fence, let me reassure you: it’s always worth it. Let’s make some magic before your big day.

Interested in booking an engagement session? I offer them as part of my wedding packages or à la carte if you're still deciding on a photographer.


📸 Tim Gowling Photography

Serving Russell, Ottawa & the surrounding area